In truth, you cannot heal or change another

In truth, you cannot heal or change another.
Nobody can. It’s impossible.

We are all sovereign beings and the only one who can change you is you.
The only one who can change them is they themselves.
But we can change ourselves and thus experience a different external reality, including the people around us.
It’s in us, not in them.
Always.

But wait, what about all the healings, energy transmissions, clearings and so on that I have received so far that have had an effect, you may ask?

Those were permission slips for you to experience the change that you desired.
You were the creator of the opportunity and a co-creator in the exchange. Without you, your desire for this transformation, your willingness, your openness, nothing would have happened. No matter how great the healer, no matter how powerful the approach, no matter how high vibe the tool. But you’ve been drawn to something that matches you and your believe system, to the perfectly right permission slip for you in that situation.

You alone are the origin of your transformation

And I am not saying this to devalue any of those experiences. We work with permission slips all the time. It is part of the human game of limitation and remembrance. A beautiful dance of co-creation.

But when it comes to my work with clients, I chose to reduce those permission slips to the bare minimum – only those that you really need to remember that you are already whole, are already loved, are already perfect. I look for the most effective loophole in your system that allows you to reconnect with that inner knowing that YOU are the creator, the origin of your life experience.
Everything is and always has been in you. I am merely your invitation, a loving mirror of truth. And that is exactly why it is so very effective, because it brings you back to your own power rather than pulling you into mine (and thus merely feeding the spiritual ego).

So why do I even do the work that I do then? If you don’t actually need me and I believe that deep down everyone creates their own transformation?

Because I so freaking love it.
I love meeting you at your core and exploring the depths of your being together.
I love seeing life through these different lenses when I work with different people. It is almost like being gifted another seat in life.
I love seeing and feeling the beauty in you and that moment when you begin to rediscover it for yourself.
Life experiencing life.
Love falling deeper in love.

This is how life flows through me most blissfully at the moment and thus the purest offering for co-creation that I can be right now.